The holiday season, known for shopping, festive meals, and hectic schedules, can be a confusing time for individuals with dementia. Loud gatherings and disruptions in routine can overwhelm those living with dementia. Cathy Langan, whose parents both have dementia, stresses the need to adjust expectations during holiday gatherings.
Her parents, Jack and Elisabeth Gimpel, reside in a care home in Guelph. Jack was diagnosed in 2021, and during holiday gatherings, his inability to engage in conversations became apparent due to noise distractions. Langan and her family adapted by engaging him one-on-one and ensuring his involvement.
When Elisabeth was diagnosed in 2023, new challenges arose. Elisabeth, who was known for leading family gatherings, struggled as her condition progressed. Langan assigned her simpler tasks like preparing salads to help her feel involved.
Despite the difficulties, Langan emphasizes the importance of cherishing the time with loved ones. The Alzheimer Society of Waterloo Wellington provides tips to make the holidays more comfortable for individuals with dementia, such as discussing plans in advance, keeping gatherings short, creating calm spaces, focusing on meaningful visits, and seeking help when needed. Michelle Martin, CEO of the Alzheimer Society, emphasizes the significance of careful planning and adjustments for a successful holiday season.